Tis the season to be jolly, tis also the season to be at your wit’s end. As a former therapist, I can validate the holidays aren’t always so festive. For some, this time of year can actually feel rather depressing. Whether you are lonely, missing loved ones, too busy or simply don’t like the holidays, I want to let you know; I get it, my heart goes out to you and it’s my hope that you take really good care of yourself during this season. In fact, the Doughmamma hereby gives you permission to treat yourself to: a massage, a movie, a night away – or whatever else you might need to recharge your batteries.
I, myself, am on the “loosing my wits”end of the holiday spectrum. However, I expect the pendulum to swing back shortly. I have to admit, eight nights of Hanukah can really wear a person down. This year felt like a fricken marathon – one in which I had no energy or desire to run.
The first night of Hanukah started off rather lovely. We lit the candles, said the prayers, ate latkes and opened some small gifts – everyone was feeling happy. On the third night, the kids started getting a bit restless. A gift arrived requiring special batteries and “no, we are not leaving the house to get batteries now.” On the 4th night fighting ensued over the dreidel, the dog ate the gelt and there were more than a few tears shed. The 5th night arrived and I realized, a little part of me has died – I am not June Cleaver after all. By the 8th night I don’t even want to light the Menorah and my internal dialogue sounds something like this, “Happy F*!#ing Hanukah – now open your damn presents and don’t complain about what you get.” Dear childhood, thank you for giving me the wonderful ability to repress my emotions, it certainly comes in handy during the holidays.
Enough “Debbing it down” for this gal, it’s time to pick myself up by the bootstratps and forge ahead with renewed spirit. Christmas is next week but it’s only one day so – I got this. I will consider the 8 days of Hanukah CrossFit training for Christmas and New Years. I should be limber, pumped and ready by now.
This recipe from Cook’s Illustrated will hopefully help to simplify your life during the season, as these little gems are quick and easy to make. Perfect for a breakfast brunch or any holiday gathering, these lovely lemon crusted blueberry muffins are absolutely divine. With a nice caramelized lemon sugar crunch exterior and a pillowy soft cake crumb interior, these muffins won’t disappoint. I can’t promise it will take away your holiday blues, but I can assure you they will certainly make a dent.
Enjoy!
*If you are feeling depressed or suicidal, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
at: 1-800-273-TALK(8255). They have counselors 24/7 operating the phone lines as well as online and can also put you in touch with your local counseling resources. It’s free, anonymous and confidential.
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